Depression… If You Have It,
Cheer Up! God Cures It! By Kelly Durant 4-27-2014
1 Samuel 16:22-23
22 Then Saul sent to Jesse,
saying, “Please let David stand before me, for he has found favor in my sight.”
23 And so it was, whenever the spirit from God was upon Saul, that David would
take a harp and play it with his hand. Then Saul would become refreshed and
well, and the distressing spirit would depart from him.
2. Did you know some people
that have been through hard depressing times can often make their selves into
some of the funniest people? Not long ago many of the comedians and actors in
America were from Jewish backgrounds and entertaining was their way of getting
over all the suffering they felt inside. Laughter is a good medicine and we all need
it! Here’s a joke, but one person here didn’t laugh though.
A man one day didn’t know
who loved him better his wife or his dog so he decided he would find out. He
thought, well if I lock them up and wait half an hour I’ll see who missed me the
most. So he put them both in the truck of his car while they were screaming and
barking at him but then they both became quiet. He opened the trunk and the
wife red faced came out and started screaming and hitting him saying, “Don’t
you ever do that again!” And she kept of raging but the man was relieved that
the dog came out all happy wagging his tail happy to see him! He concluded his
dog loves him more, ha!
“Depressed people can feel sad, anxious, empty, hopeless,
worried, helpless, worthless, guilty, irritable, hurt, or restless. They may lose
interest in activities that once were pleasurable, experience loss of appetite
or overeating, have problems concentrating, remembering details, or making
decisions, and may contemplate, attempt, or commit suicide. Insomnia, excessive sleeping, fatigue, loss of energy, or
aches, pains, or digestive problems may also be present” (the wiki-dictionary
definition) The aged and even the
young people today live more depressed, according to many research groups, than
what they use to in past decades. When a person has a face that is not so happy
and smiley, what should you do? You should pray for them & help them!
3. Trying times for people could
be mental or physical. Pain in the physical body (20% to 40% of people suffer
some type of chronic pain) or pain from a recent tragic event can cause
depression. Everyone in life will suffer
a loss of a loved one, or a job loss, or suffer for a time over something but we
need God and people intervening if something continues to linger or becomes
chronic.
I think all of us at some time
or another are victim to hard times and been discouraged. This is normal and a
part of what God wants every human to experience in order to learn to love and
appreciate Christ’s suffering and have sympathy on others who suffer as well.
Not all days are happy ones in our lives, but when a person seems to always be
dry and down, always distant from others, always critical or down in mood, then
we should ask ourselves if something deeper is happening inside and as a loving
caring Christian try to help. Be careful though, with some people it becomes a
selfish game, they love the attention they get for being negative, and they
might also not want to give up their oppressive demon.
Depression should be looked at
as a condition that is temporary and curable. People can be made happier by
doing exercises, reading books, playing dominoes and socializing. The best cure
to regain a lasting happiness is to rejuvenate faith in God and to be active
serving others in the community. Just giving someone a handshake can even bring
a smile on your face and theirs as well! As a matter of fact, right now, get up
and shake someone’s hand right beside you! Do it, it’s okay! Feel the love!
God made us with different
personalities, but to some degree each person chooses how they allow their
selves to feel. When you and I wake up we can either complain about our lot in
life, about how there is no money, or you & I can praise God that we are
alive and that you are able to walk, see, and hear, and function normally to
get things done! Here is a good verse to claim… 1 Corinthians 10:13
No temptation has overtaken
you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow
you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also
make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it
4. Today we will investigate
Saul and David, did you know that both suffered from depression? The factor is
they struggled to get over it, but they both had different ways; but only God’s
way works. His way up is down, down to self. When I was a kid and I would put all the toy
soldiers in lines to fight, and I would always dream I was the king commanding
all the men where to go. Humans, even
children want power and dominion over their worlds. Most people have the wrong
idea in life that if they could be rich, and famous, or be a king or queen,
then life would be wonderful! But that is only in fairy tales! Comparing yourself
with others, coveting, lusting, envying, and all of your uncontrolled sinful
appetites will kill you inside and depress you! Fight your carnality and
realize that being king or queen is not so great really but a big headache!
What happened to King Saul?
He was murderously jealous of David and miserable! Notice that he was Israel’s first king, he was
very tall, handsome, and everyone was his servant. He should have been the happiest man in
Israel with all his wealth, power, and blessings but he was not! His biggest
problem was his pride and he was not willing to obey God all the way and the
result was he started living depressed and everyone around him suffered. Who
wants to be near a king in a bad mood? He might just cut off your head because you
looked at him when he was upset over something!
As we read in the verses of
today in I Sam 16 we see that David with his lyre was selected to play for Saul
to comfort him in his bad moods. How many of you listen to music? Music can be
a great comfort when you are down, and I suggest you listen to positive music
from good and/or preferable Christian bands. But not all music is good. It
depends on the purpose of the music, if it’s message is bad or pointless and if
the writer or singer lives in debauchery, if so then probably it will depress
you even more. David consoled Saul in song because his spirit was pure being a
lover of God, whereas Saul had a spirit out of tune with God. Bad humored
people like to sponge on the innocent as they are not willing to do the work their
selves to be pure and they want an shortcut.
5. So Saul was getting an
external temporary daily fix for his depression. The bigger problem was that
Saul did not chose to fix the deeper problem he had of not loving and obeying
God. Many people today live on this same treadmill of masking pain and
depression with outside sources. Drugs, sex, and rock and roll seem to be the
most powerful stimulants people consume to overcharge their minds and spirits
into numbness in order to forget their pain, mistakes, and depression. Only
faith and prayer, caring friends, and hard work to change destructive habits
can break these chains!
The problem with this,
living life as a partier, or as a publican as they were called in Jesus day, is
that you have to keep repeating the cycle day after day to keep yourself in a
continued state of distraction and that causes the mind, body and soul to deteriorate
worse. The fear of publicans and sinners is the one of facing reality, of
facing a dead silence of alone time with God, but the reality of our inadequacy
is exactly what God wants us to face! Jesus was fun and the life of the party
when with friends, but his joy was authentic showing others that they could be
happier with a new life of obedience closer to God instead of by heavy
stimulation. Satan wants to rob your body and soul.
John 10:10 The thief does
not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they
may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.
Repentance is important to
God for you to be happy but few people really ask for forgiveness. King Saul
would never let go and repent telling God he was sorry for his pride and let
God pick up his broken world and put it back together. He was too proud. Saul
condemned himself to a sad life because he would not rest in God’s southing
light obeying and loving Him. There are
many rich and poor unrepentant sinners of today living sad broken lives. Only
by letting God take the wheel can anyone ever get on the right road! Those of
you that know my personal testimony know I know this personally!
I love this case, Luke 19:8
Then Zacchaeus stood and said to the Lord, “Look, Lord, I give half of my goods
to the poor; and if I have taken anything from anyone by false accusation, I
restore fourfold.” When a person is truly sorry, thy make it right with God and
the ones they have wronged! Zacchaeus got over his guilt, loneliness, and depression
with Jesus touch! God’s love invokes action to do something!
6. Now let’s look at David. Saul tried to kill
him for years; now that is depressing! Saul was obsessed with looking for David
to kill him chasing him all over the country with his men. It was in dark caves
in depressed moments when many of David’s Psalms were written.
David was for the most part
obedient and happy but a few times in his life he did some horrible things that
cost him some dark days and punishment. On one occasion he lamented for months
over the sin of adultery and God forgave him but let his son die as a
punishment. Many unpleasant things that happen in life have a reason and God
wants us to learn from them to be humble and be broken and be remade in His
image.
Here is another bad moment
for David. He was trying to find a city
to hide in and fear got the best of him as he thought King Achish there was
going to kill him.. I Samuel 21: 12 Now David took these words to heart, and
was very much afraid of Achish the king of Gath. 13 So he changed his behavior
before them, pretended madness in their hands, scratched on the doors of the
gate, and let his saliva fall down on his beard. 14 Then Achish said to his servants,
“Look, you see the man is insane. Why have you brought him to me? 15 Have I
need of madmen, that you have brought this fellow to play the madman in my
presence? Shall this fellow come into my house?”
7. What this event with
David proves is that any one of us when in a very dangerous and frightening
situation might go crazy! Others may even see you as crazy when you are under
extreme duress but what we learn later is that David got past this. David’s
terrible dark moments were temporary because he sought God to be his comfort
and salvation. The beautiful Psalms are a proof of the love he had for God and
how much he trusted in Him to save him in all situations! They comfort all of
us! Psalm 62:2 He only is my rock and my
salvation; He is my defense; I shall not be greatly moved.
Over time stuff (or life) happens!
We all have fears! Any person can lose everything overnight! The question is, are
you and I working with God or against Him in all of life’s situations? On another note, research proves that
depression can be genetic and run in families, that some depression can be
solved by prescription meds for control, or that some depression happens from
our brains aging and not having the chemicals and bubbliness of a child anymore.
But with all this said, I am
making a point that much of depression is determined by whether or not you are
at peace with God or not! You may fear or be in bad circumstances, but God will
take it away! Faith and trust in His Word is the answer.
8. It is amazing how some
people, even ones with great physical limitations and handicaps can find ways
to be happy, useful, and normal. However, it is sad that many so called normal people
with many resources and opportunities available from God and in their community
seem to live life frustrated and down. It all has to do with the vision and
faith you have: to be used by God all the way being happy and fulfilled, or to
just get by in life by doing things, “your way”.
There were two hobos talking
in a back alley of a big city in the cold one night (they should have gone to
the Salvation Army shelter, ha!) and the one said to the other, “I don’t care
what anyone says, I did life my way! I did it my way!” The other thinks a
minute and then says, “Well, if I could do it all over, I would prefer to do it
Frank Sinatra’s way!” Ha! Well, the right answer is we want to do it Jesus’
way! No matter the conditions, Jesus comforts and provides and life abundant
comes from him.
Some people older in life
get depressed because they feel like no one really cares about them. They
conclude that when they leave this world it will not matter and their life
would have been without any significance. This sobering feeling provokes some
older people (some young too) to be appreciative and become very active in the
lives of their families. Also, anyone can leave a footprint of being useful in
a volunteer group in their community. All counselors advise helping others as a
way to get out of depression! That is God’s formula, ‘to love God and others’ staying
busy for Him!
9. As people we may suffer
for a time due to our own created circumstances, from being disobedient to God,
or just by being a victim of earth’s imperfect conditions. But as Christians we are consoled, Psalm 30:5
For His anger is but for a moment, His favor is for life; Weeping may endure
for a night, But joy comes in the morning.
Every person who reads the
Bible, whether they have read it in it’s entirety or not, know they must read
the Psalms for comfort of spirit. Millions of people for millennia have been
comforted by the Psalms! David got his own spirit comforted by God and he was
able to comfort others, in song, in poem, and in words. His comfort came even
after months of depression, even after years of escaping death from King Saul’s
army living in dark caves in the mountains of Israel.
Never allow yourself to be
like Saul, a proud unrepentant angry jealous persecutor of the righteous. He
never got his heart right with God, he just kept on making more and more
mistakes until one day he lost a major battle and that depressed him so much he
fell on his sword and took his own life! Live and die in victory, not depressed
in shame!
10. Today is the day to ask
Jesus in your life. I will confess I
have had moments down and depressed too! No one escapes the trials and pains
that this life offers, but how you react to these tribulations is what makes
all the difference in the world! Listen to praise music, start singing and
shouting, reading God’s word and praying, and start looking for the humor and
funny things in life’s awkward situations!
Take control and fight your
own demons that lie to you about the past, present, and future! Start reading the Bible (reading the Psalms in
particular) and get out of the house and start doing nice and helpful things
for others! Repent of your mistakes and make a plan of restitution to right the
wrongs you’ve done!
Count your blessings and
there will be no time left for complaints! Ask God to take away your pride and
realize that God forgives your weaknesses, fear, and craziness. In the end, God
loves you and wants you happy! Psalm 40:2 He also brought me up out of a
horrible pit, Out of the miry clay, And set my feet upon a rock, And
established my steps. Psalm 144:15 Happy are the people who are in such a
state; Happy are the people whose God is the Lord! Amen! Prayer…
